Success Addictives on Instagram: "Attraction Differences Between Men and Women Sarah E. Hill explains that men and women judge attractiveness in different ways. For men, attraction is usually stable. If a woman is naturally attractive, men tend to see her as attractive no matter her job, clothes, or social status. Their opinion doesn’t change much across situations. For women, attraction is more flexible. Women often look beyond looks and pay attention to signs like confidence, success, stabilit